Sunday, 23 August 2015

Guys Lets Talk

Ok...Guys, i know you'll all be wondering why i prepared this portion for you. Well i'm here to give you guys some little secret and and sure you'll all make a difference after we're done here. So, you're single and you have a crush and someone lately but you havent made a move yet? or you made a move but things are'nt going so smooth for you? If yes, then read on and if no, maybe you should check other news on my blog...lol. Anyways check out my write up below on how you can scale through situations like this and if you engage yourself or have some personalities on the write up coming your way, then you need to adjust your ways. So here are things you can do to make a girl like you;

1.Be Confident: Guys this is a very important personality, you dont have to be shy, you need to show some confidence while talking to your lady to be. I know most of you will say you're afraid of the girl, like maybe she could slap your face or disgrace you or something, well i could only blame you if you walked up to her at the wrong time. Some dude's could just stop ypu went you're just coming back from the market, like are you so blind to see she's with some load? She could jus shout on you because she's tired and she's with some load. Instead, study her and know the time she's in a good mood, she could be going to a shop to get something, you could follow her and pretend you want to buy something too and when she awaits her good demands, you can then talk to her.

2.Be a friend first: You just met her and introduced yourself and the next thing you do is pour out your love for her, she'll just step on it and leave and next time she sees you, she will want to hide from you. Instead you can be a friend to her, act like youre just seeing her for the first time, be like "oh ive not seen you here before, do you live around?"... and stuffs like that, just tell her you would hope to see her again and that will be all.... for that day and maybe when next you see her add her on social media like Whatsapp, BBM, Facebook and so on, dont just ask for her number yet.

3.Chat with her: Now you've gotten her online, you can get to know about her but be careful for she might lose intrest in you see why. When chattting, dont ask her questions like tell me about yourself as a whole, instead break the questions bit by bit, like where are you from etc and make her feel you're not so into her. What i mean by that is, you can break your chat when its getting lively, this will make her available when you're back. Dont be like... "I gat to go"... no be like "i wanna go have my lunch, be right back".. then after two days or more of chats, you can then ask for her line, telling her you want to say hi, and dont break that promise, call her and say hi wiyh some few words to go with, then ask her to come back online.

4.Give her some space: Now she's used to you, you told her about your feelings and she puts you on hold, dont rush her. Dont call her all the time, for you could find you very disturbing instead you can make her feel deserve her, just keep reading.

5.Check on her: While calling her to check on her, dont let this relationship be just about the both of you, ask about her family and if she's in school ask about her education in school and how she's fairing.

 6. Take her on a date: Dont be scared guys, you can spend even if its just a little. Take her to a joint where the make sharwama, or ice cream, get on for yourself and one for her too, sit, talk and enjoy your date. At the end of the day you could just spend less than 2k, thtas a very fair range.

7.Dont talk too much: If you do so, you won't give her the chance to say something, always allow her to finish her line before you jump in the convo.

8.Protect and care for her: This will make her feel loved. For example, youre walking on the mainroad with her, dont expose her to the vehicles passing, rotate her to the other side and i tell you my brother, she'll be swelling and blushing deep within her.

9.Compliment her: Praise her and make her feel special, if she makes a new hair, nothing is wrong in telling her she looks beautiful and if you don't just do that, you'll make her feel unappreciated.

10.Be funny: Dont you too want to see her giggle and laugh out loud? Of course you would love to. Try to be real and professsional while doing it, so don't go and watch 'Night Of A Thousand Laugh Volume 6 and cram everything there just because you want to be funny, try to be creative OK.

 11.Good health: Youre talking with your mouth close to her nose and an offensive odour is coming from it, my brother please brush porperly and use mint to keep your moth breath fresh. Look at your hair, its so bushy, if you want to keep Afro, why not take good care of it and if you cant, please low cut will be fine. Use deodorants and perfume, its always nice when she percieve that nice scent coming from you but please dont buy too strong ones, she might be allergic to it.

  I wont tell you guys all the secrets, just try this ones and if it doesn't work, maybe she has a boyfriend or maybe she has got problems with something else or herself..... well from me to you guys.... GOODLUCK!!!

From SUZEE-B's Desk- The Audition Chapter 1E

......continue from where i stopped yesterday........

40mins later, the whole place was dark, vehicles were moving faster than usual, people on the street were in a hurry trying to get home, even the owner of the friut stall where Mya was sitting was already packing her and locking up her goods in a large wooden locker, it was about to raing...heavily. Mya at that point was already up from the chair and was tryin to reach MIke in the phone but his line was not reachable. Soon there was a heavy wind blowing across Mya's face, it only took a while before the rain started to pour down. Luckily she was with a portable umbrella in her bag which she used to protect herself from getting wet but three other people who were also caught in the rain, begged mya to allow them share her litle umbrella. She was vexed, even though she didnt want to, she couldnt say no to it, worst of all, she was still beaten by the rain. She then reach for her phone again to dial MIke's number and luckily this time, it went throug and Mike picked the call..."Hello Mike, where are you now, you told me you would be here very soon and i havent seen you Mike, what is happening? Mya said in a rush.. "Im sorry Mya, my car broke down and i had to pack it along the road since i couldnt fix it. Im in a bus now and at Oluwaniyi, i'll soon be there please hold on" and he hangs up.. Mya looked at her phone and dropped it in her bag, like she hates it when she calls someone on the phone and the person hangs up on her to his/her own satisfaction like she was done talking.

The rain subsided a little and a person sharing her little brolly, decided to leave, Mya was glad, for they were choked up together before. Just some few minute later, Mya sighted someone on a yellow and black outfit,run-crossing towards her, she looked closely,.... it was mike.. "finally" she exclaimed, weaving her hand for Mike to see her, she has never felt so happy throughout that day. "sorry guys, my ride is here" Mya said, reffering to her co-brolly sharers as Mike walked towards her. She walks up to meeet MIke and placed the umbrella over his head so they could boyh share. Mike apologised for his lateness and Mya didnt bother to ask about his car that broke down, why, cause she cared less. They soon got a bus to take them home but the fare had doubled, probabaly because of the rain, because when rain falls in the city, bus owners will double their fare because the know poeple will pay anything not to get caught up in the rain, well not everybody though. Soon Mya reached for her busstop, Mike made a suggestion to walk her home but she didnt want him to pay extra going back home, he had already done enough for her and for another reason, she does'nt want to be around him or to make him know her place. She alighted, weaved Mike goodbye and walked home, looking so blue and tired.

  "Glink, glink, glink..." Mya stirred her cup of coffee with a stainless spoon, she was back at home relaxing after a hectic day. Gracefully, the power was back on, she stood up to turn on the heater since she had no fire-place. She was cold and it seems the hot bath she took didnt help matter. There she was, Mya Dickson, sipping her cofee with a cookie she had stored in the fridge. She reached for her radio, turned it on and tuned to her favorite radio station, it was a program hosted by her favorite OAP, but she doesnt seem to be into the program at that moment, she was lost in her thoughts, thinking about all the misfortuned that occured that day. She recalled shouting at that innocent lady she meet at the audition center, she just wish she could apologies to her. oh.. and for her shower, her bills hasnt expired, a neighbour mistake stepped on the pipe connecting to her apartment with the tire of his car, he has fixed it back while she was out and now the water is running fine. She rounded up her coffee and stretched on the couch. "maybe i shouldnt do music after all, maybe its no good for me,afterall i'm a successful catherer, maybe all i need now is a good man to start a good relati...... There in her thoughts, Mya Dickson fell asleep...

Today is the last episode on Chapter one, find out how life will end with Mya. Will she find someone she would really like, or should i say her Prince Charming.....